A few years ago…
the woman in this photo called me…
Someone had explained to her that I was seeing her husband.
I had no idea who she was, or that the guy I was seeing was married. We spent a LOT of time together. He never didn’t have time for me.
The entire situation breaks my heart to this day.
I’ve never forgiven myself for not asking more questions, for not knowing.
It hurts honestly. I lost some friends over this. One guy, in particular.
I feel like an idiot when I think about this entire period of my life.
For more reasons than one.
She left him, because of me.
I should not blame myself, but I do.
you did her a favor. If he was really in love with his wife it wouldn’t have happened in the first place, so in reality you probably saved her a lot of time and grief by helping her figure out sooner than later that her husband was incapable of being faithful to her.
